Always remember that the things that happened to you and the circumstances you found yourself in DO NOT define you. I have infinite respect for women/children who find the courage to speak up against the oppression they face. Their voices give way to a far brighter future.
Notes # 2
The very fact that you have sought out help means you are a fighter. To endure what you have, I cannot image, but you are a survivor. Your strength is extraordinary. I have so much love and respect for you.